There are some events or activities that bring out the true nature and character of your family. In our family, some of the games we play tends to bring out the competitive spirit amoungst our family members. A simple game of croquet in the back yard can bring out passions and intensity not seen all the time. And besides, it’s fun! It doesn’t take complicated plans, devised, or manufactured occasions to get a glimpse of a person’s heart. When we simplify some of our activities it can become more about the people and less stress about the activity. It becomes easier to invite others along with us, and include someone else.
I know in our yard, if someone whines too much, you become a target. Your croquet ball may just get knocked down the hill into the neighbors yard. If you complain too much, everyone else may gang up on you. It seems true, that – “it’s not how you start, it’s how you finish”…but I think it is also important how you play the game.
Play on, play hard, play fair (as much as your family and friends allow), and when there is a rain delay (that’s when the sprinkler system comes on inadvertently) – have a cool drink, and some fresh cherries and listen to each others heart….