We started this fun event that has become a tradition. It’s a touch football game on Thanksgiving Monday pitting married guys against single all in the name of a little fun and friendly competition. Over the last decade there have been close games, blow outs, controversy, great plays, a few minor injuries, and even some sideline watchers!

It’s an engaging time, more about being together, and the constant play of youthful enthusiasm and energy verses wily experience and fading glory. Even this year one veteran married guy who came to “watch on the sidelines”, was eventually (it didn’t take long) drawn into the game. Notably, he made a marked contribution and even schooled his son on more than one occasion (Rob). Certainly, people have discovered the competitiveness that resides in me and my household over the years…and other traits as well.

I find it interesting how some activities and events can become traditions, occasionally after one incidence. To me holding on to traditions that add value, context, and build relationships, seems to be a good. Doing something or participating in a tradition just because, or after the value is lost, or purely out of obligation seems empty. I think there is room for some new traditions, to start something that could define us, celebrate, and add value to others. I think there is also room to let some of the tired, meaningless, empty, and valueless ones go. I believe you will need to decide which those are – you know what happens when you mess with tradition!?

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